In the fall of 1997, my husband and I traveled alone, to the far reaches
of Turkey to the small town of Yalikavik. There was little English
spoken. We managed to learn a few words and smiled a lot. Smiles show
friendship and that was our goal. We spent two weeks in that small
village and visited with the school children almost every day. My
husband showed the children how to whistle through their hands and they
loved it. I told them stories with lots of animation and expression and
more smiles. They enjoyed it so much and so did we. A few of the
older ones could introduce themselves in English and that made them
proud. We in turn would introduce ourselves to each one and try to
repeat their name. That always brought a lot of giggles.
Often the children would bring their parents up to meet us when we saw
them at the market or on the village playground or square. The children
seemed so proud to know us and we were honored when they came up to us
to speak. Each time the introductions were repeated. We tried very
hard to show respect for their customs and to show love and caring for
their land.
We certainly were happy to feel welcome in a place where there were no
other Americans and we were traveling independently. We rode local
buses and public transportation and somehow managed to make our way
around. Sometimes it was a bit frightening.
Upon the first visit to the school, the headmaster invited us to "Che"
or tea. He did not speak English but graciously invited us to visit the
classrooms. While we drank the strong Turkish tea from the small,
ornate cups, the headmaster showed us drawings and different pictures
and charts of the school activities in his small office. Although we
did not know what he was saying or exactly what he was showing us each
time, we bowed and smiled and said thank you many times with our limited
Turkish words.
